Thursday, December 31, 2009
A Decade of Life...
Friday, December 25, 2009
Peace on Earth...or at least my lounge room!
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Running out of Firsts
The firsts start to slow down as your child gets older and the firsts are more important. Conor has just experienced a special first for him.
Conor lost his first tooth. And he was very brave. The tooth has been loose for a little while, with an adult tooth pushing through from behind. Today, he asked if we could pull it out. Daddy tried cotton but Conor wasn't feeling particularly happy with that. So Daddy tried to dry it with a paper towel and pull it out on the sly! Nope, that didn't work either, all that happened was Conor bled like a stuck pig!
Finally, I told him he had to be brave and see if he could pull it out himself. There were tears, there was much forehead wrinkling and then...he squared his shoulders and pulled it out himself.
Tonight he will be anxiously waiting for the tooth fairy...or the Molinator as he likes to be called!
Cindy
Thursday, November 19, 2009
BeTWEEN a Rock and a Hard Place
Caitie, on the other hand, is a Tweenie. She is between being a little girl and a teenager. And it comes with all the attitude that a teenager has with a pinch of angst and alot of anger. Everything is so unfair, I'm so horrible, everyone else can do this or that. And when she doesn't get her own way, she throws the most appalling temper tantrums. Bad ones...kicking my solid wood antique dining table across the room bad. Throwing herself against my fridge bad. Destroying things bad. And I don't know how to deal with it.
She is sweet and funny and was fantastic helping out at an Obedience trial the other night. The committee couldn't say better things about her. That, I suppose, is it. Is the one thing I should be proud of. She respects her elders, is polite, goes out of her way to help.
I reckon I can put up withe the next seven years of "I don't like you" if she is good when she is away from home...at least I think I can!
Cin
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Cousin It!
A week ago, Caitie asked me to plait her hair. So, being the wonderful mother I am, I obliged...it had nothing to do with the fact that I knew what it would look like after she brushed it out. *snort*
Enjoy,
Cin
Sadness by the bucket load
Our first litter of the season was born in a kitchen drawer. Mum managed to squeeze through the back, all two inches of it, and gave birth in the smallest drawer possible. The first two babies died after Mum laid on them. Of the surviving four, the smallest perished after a few days. The remaining three have grown and prospered and taken the hearts of others. They will go to their new homes soon, fat little butterballs they are. Super sweet and naughty too!
Our second was a tabby litter of six. The littlest girl died after a long struggle. Her five siblings, two girls and two boys were doing fine until the choccie girl crashed and struggled to stay alive. I was NOT going to lose yet another kitten so we fought long and hard and she is doing well. She is somewhat smaller than the rest of her siblings but is doing very well. Her brothers are below.
Our hardest litter was born last. We lost one boy at birth. We lost one boy at around a week and a half old and we lost another boy at two weeks old. We had to bottle feed these babies and I fought so HARD to no avail. It really hurt, these kittens meant the world to me.
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Endings and Beginnings
I have a favourite photograph of Tony eating icecream with Dax sitting on his shoulder as a wee kitten, trying to scoop the icecream off the spoon into her mouth. Dax lived through having her jaw broken by a dog, a massive foot infection, abscesses and numerous puppies. She was our resident puppy trainer, teaching them respect for cats. Every Monday night, home from Obedience training with Nell, Dax would meet me at the gate because she knew I would have one leftover treat in my treatbag just for her. She never met me on Wednesday nights because I didn't take treats then! Clever cat.
Thursday afternoon Dax was hit by a car. Dax was road savvy and had been an outdoor cat her entire life. She was found by Caitie who believes if she found her sooner Dax would have lived. The damage was too severe and Dax passed away that evening aged 15 years old. We badly miss our Meow Cat, who never learnt how to Meow completely. She either said MMM or Owwww!.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Art Appreciation 101
The museum is the boys' favourite place to visit. Aiden and Conor both love the animals and seeing all the bones and gross bits. I love identifying the birds that are around our area. Today they also had science experiments where the kids made whirlybirds and balancing clowns.
We also popped into the Gallery of Modern Art where the kids came across this giant sculpture by Ron Mueck, titled "In Bed". They were all fascinated and you could see them itching to touch and explore. I think we spent a good ten to fifteen minutes looking at this huge woman. Caitlin said that she thought the woman looked cold. Not a bad observation for an 11 year old.
After we came home, I showed them some more of Muecks work and the kids are absolutely fascinated by him and his take on humanity. A little bit of culture for the kids!
Cheers,
Cin
Monday, September 21, 2009
Persistence Pays Off
It was Aidens birthday last month and he had been hoping to get a Ripstick for Christmas. This skateboard on two wheels is very difficult to learn to ride but lotsa fun when you get it right. Aiden told me he had learnt to ride one at his friends place and was really good at it.
So we surprised him with one for his birthday instead and the very first thing he did was fall off in spectacular style! There was blood, there was torn flesh, there were tears...turns out Aiden told me a furphy. He thought a little lie wouldn't be noticed, much.
Anyway, he has been practicing and practicing and practicing...
So, he's not ready for any gnarley jumps or anything and he's no Tony Hawke but geez I'm proud of him!
Cheers,
Cin
Sunday, September 13, 2009
One Piece of Tape
Caitie went to remove a piece of tape from her wall, accidently leant on it and broke the wall. She flew out of her room in tears thinking she had done this horrible thing. In truth, if she hadn't of leant on the wall, we wouldn't have discovered the horrible truth.
As husband went to repair the very small break in the masonite, he turned to me appalled and said those awful words...."We have termites!" Ohhhh, crap! After destroying a fair amount of wall inside as well as removing the capping on the side of the house outside, he determined we had caught them just as they were starting to build. There was no damage, just alot of mud and some really annoyed crawlies. Its hard to have a Happy Sunday when you've just been sprayed with insect kill.
Now the bets are on for how long it will take for him to FIX the wall!
Cin
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Dump and Burn, Baby!!
This park has special significance for our family as Tony and I were married there, along the banks of the creek where we loved to run the dogs, playing in the shallows and exploring. We hoped to bring our kids to the playground and watch them grow and explore as we had. It wasn't to be as vandals burnt it to the ground.
We hadn't been to the new playground in some months when we came to the Park one day and were met by a kids absolute wonderland! The playground now nestles amongst the trees, inviting the children (and parents) to indulge in wild games of tag, fanciful imaginative play and exercising young minds and bodies....and its great fun too! Its consists of four tree houses, all interconnected with slides, ramps, moving bridges, ladders and firemens poles. There is also a large sandpit for the toddlers to explore and build in.
It was a poignant end to a great day. Happy River Festival everyone!
Cheers
Cin
Friday, September 4, 2009
These Little Wonders
Aiden on the left, our Michelin Baby and Caitie on the right, adoring big sister.
Saturday, August 29, 2009
Q..Who Knew!!
We would like to welcome Alangrove Qupids Arrow or Q as we call him. Q is a lovely puppy and a really good boy too. He has leanrt to sit on command, come when he is called and wait at the door or for his dinner. He is learning the heel position and also how to return to the heel position. And did I mention he is a gooooood puppy?
When he arrived, he slept with me the first night on a mattress in the lounge room. And we progressed night after night, moving him into his crate. Then into his crate with the door closed and finally outside with the big dogs.
Today, we went to the beach for the first time and it was a bad day to go. The wind was high and blowing up fairly sizeable waves (at least sizeable to a fourteen week old puppy!) I thought Q would be a little bit hesitant but no, he jumped right in, wasn't worried or scared and followed the big dogs like he had been swimming forever!
I'm looking forward to having him attend puppy school in two weeks time. A new adventure awaits us!
I was concerned about how well Nell would react to a pup and she was snarfy to start with. Now, they get on well mainly because he has really good puppy manners.
On an aside...Nell gained a Quali in her Snooker run this weekend. One more and it will be her title. She has also achieved enough to gain her her Gold Super Dog Medallion this year.
GO THE NOODLE!!!!
Cin
Monday, July 27, 2009
A Candle for Isabella
Cindy
(hugs Maree)
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
A Farm Girl at Heart
I was also a lonely teenager who lived in a small country town where most of my friends lived outside of town and I had no transport, therefore no friends whom I saw after school or at the weekend. And there I found my first love of chooks. I loved their orderly lives, I loved that they would take any bit of garbage and turn it into fresh eggs. I loved that mine would come running when I called out 'chook, chook, chicKENS!' I loved seeing them delve with much pleasure into table scraps. I loved the feel of their feathers and the sheen they had in sunlight.
And stupidly enough, I learnt to understand how they worked in a flock. I learnt how to round them up and get them to go where I wanted them to go. Chooks are a bit like sheep, they follow the leader and the slightest body movement changes their direction. My kids don't understand this and it frustrates me. And my kids also don't get that chooks need food to produce eggs and clean water to stay healthy...this too frustrates me.
But all in all, I just love having them around. I love to indulge my passion for chooks by spoiling them with a new layer of mulch or some oats in their food. I love that they are undemanding, that they make the coolest noises and they are just plain pretty. I love that they can live in small backyards as well as they can in huge open barns. I know, its strange but thats the kinda girl I am...
p.s. hugs to Gen on the loss of her Nanni. Chin up chook!
Monday, July 13, 2009
Diagnosis
Treatment at the moment is more maintenance than a cure: there is no cure for Aspergers. We are working with him on channelling his behaviour, thinking before he speaks, removing himself from confronting situations etc. We will be putting him on fish oil to help with a healthy brain and in a few months time Dr S will have another look at the situation. We are also waiting for the school to send in their information as well.
Its all coming together, now we know what we are dealing with! Now comes the learning!
Cheers,
Cin